Effortlessly

Men and effort. There is some kind of love and hate relationship between those two.

Seriously, as cliche as it sounds, actions speak louder than words. You don't text a woman those cheesy2 words and at the same time, not do cheesy2 things. If you say you miss 'em, you meet 'em. "I miss you but im a bit tired and i have this thing right here, yeah, maybe tomorrow, when i'm free, oh no i have another thing tomorrow.." yeah...like, how about never?

It seems like there are pre-relationship and during-the-relationship phases where the effort one puts in the former is so different than the latter.

Some says its petty. But these things are one of the main reasons why love fades and couple separates.

To love a person and to be IN LOVE with that person is two different things.
You gotta put some effort in maintaining a relationship.
or the relationSHIP will sink. *badum tsss*

Its not the price tag. Its the action and the effort you take.
And small things get to the heart. (a new pair of heels wont hurt either haha)
But seriously, a Cadbury with an "i love you" written on a yellow sticky pad, get this, IS SWEET.

AND WOMEN FALL FOR THIS. 
At least most woman i know. 

And I guarantee she'll upload it in Instagram or Facebook instantly 

(or in next hour when she is certain of the higher traffic of viewers haha). 

Why do you think those Cadbury adverts are always about bringing couples together?? 

Last time i checked, it would only cost you lesser than RM4. 

And it is like a common practice that a man's degree of effort will increase drastically, when she does some drastic move. Like not giving a f (with or without a factor of getting attention from another man) or simply leave. 

Is that how it is supposed to be. She has to threatens to leave before you get off your lazy ass and do something?

but yeah, in some (rare) circumstances,  no matter what the man does, it will never be enough.
*cough cough*

That....will be discussed later. *wink*

xoxo

I Just Have To Know

You know the saying of "Who Else Can Become a Great CSI Agent, But A Woman"? OK there isn't such saying actually but I, on behalf of everyone, am so certain of that. Actually a great stalker but CSI Agent is a bit subtle kan. 

You give a woman one name (preferably full name haha), and she will do her very best to dig out pictures, spend her time reading comments to that pictures, checking out the profile of those people commented at that pictures, the likers of the pictures, the friends, the exes, the cousins, the youtube links, the hobby, the everyf-thing. 

TRUE STORY #1 
 I used to have a business page at Instagram and a friend approached me requesting to ‘borrow’ the page so that she could use it to ‘request to follow’ this one particular person and stalk her. I asked her why. “I just have to know my boyfriend’s ex”.  Oh-kay. Ain't we all gurrrll.. hehe.  And after a short period of time ‘borrowing’ my business page,  she requested again the week after. “In case I missed anything the first time or maybe there is another update”.  Haha. I gave her the password anyway. #sistersinIslam #tolongmenolong

(P/S Dear women-readers, i know you are thinking of it, but I dont have the business page anymore so y'all can try other options k haha #imkidding #pleasePMme)

Who would go to that extent? A WOMAN with her “i-just-have-to-know” reason. 

TRUE STORY#2

Another friend of mine, with her “i-just-have-to-know” reason, scrolled down down down until the very first picture of a guy (I'm talking about a total of 600+ of them), his tagged photos (in case he did not upload that photo, she just had to look at his pictures uploaded by his friends), his followings, his followers, the percentage of women being his followers, and that is just from Instagram. Belum masuk FB, and even LinkedIn. #superwoman

Yelah, before kenal kene la stalk dulu kan hihi.  

Yes i have these friends with such great ability (and free time? =p) And I love 'em. (I could actually use their services one day)  

ok back to work. 

xoxo