Effortlessly

Men and effort. There is some kind of love and hate relationship between those two.

Seriously, as cliche as it sounds, actions speak louder than words. You don't text a woman those cheesy2 words and at the same time, not do cheesy2 things. If you say you miss 'em, you meet 'em. "I miss you but im a bit tired and i have this thing right here, yeah, maybe tomorrow, when i'm free, oh no i have another thing tomorrow.." yeah...like, how about never?

It seems like there are pre-relationship and during-the-relationship phases where the effort one puts in the former is so different than the latter.

Some says its petty. But these things are one of the main reasons why love fades and couple separates.

To love a person and to be IN LOVE with that person is two different things.
You gotta put some effort in maintaining a relationship.
or the relationSHIP will sink. *badum tsss*

Its not the price tag. Its the action and the effort you take.
And small things get to the heart. (a new pair of heels wont hurt either haha)
But seriously, a Cadbury with an "i love you" written on a yellow sticky pad, get this, IS SWEET.

AND WOMEN FALL FOR THIS. 
At least most woman i know. 

And I guarantee she'll upload it in Instagram or Facebook instantly 

(or in next hour when she is certain of the higher traffic of viewers haha). 

Why do you think those Cadbury adverts are always about bringing couples together?? 

Last time i checked, it would only cost you lesser than RM4. 

And it is like a common practice that a man's degree of effort will increase drastically, when she does some drastic move. Like not giving a f (with or without a factor of getting attention from another man) or simply leave. 

Is that how it is supposed to be. She has to threatens to leave before you get off your lazy ass and do something?

but yeah, in some (rare) circumstances,  no matter what the man does, it will never be enough.
*cough cough*

That....will be discussed later. *wink*

xoxo